Just had a BIG quarrel with parents. 2 Vs 1.

Bf left at 12am as we are doing project, mum came down and attempted to shoo bf off when he is already packing.

After bf left, i went up and they started lor. Mum says: 'Family rule, 11pm must leave.'
Dad added on and somehow linked to dinner. Saying I always eat at his place. But that's because my mum did nt cook what! And of course I admit i prefer his hse, at least no one nags at me there and there will always be his maid to wash the dishes as well as his mum to be very nice to serve foods/soups/fruits/dessert/at least talk very nicely and sweetly and hoping that I can stay over.

My hse lei? I prepare dinner, I wash dishes, I got nagged, bf got chased at 11pm. Who likes it? She says I am a 'lousy' daughter compared to others, then i say 'Haha. U go out take alook first!', then she say 'Dun compare with others.' WTHH!? She started comparing then ask me dun compare. Wat a joke.

In the middle of the convo, daddy became superbly sarcastic and i got so so so pissed off that I shouted back: 'Can you stop being sarcastic!?' And he replied: 'So you wanna shout at me now lah?' Really wth. He keeps pushing all the blame to bf for nt being understanding and such, saying that bf wanna be a good son and in turn make me the bad daughter. Really feel like scolding the f word right to their face. Where I want to go, What time I want to be home is my problem, IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY BF. I seriously get pissed and dislik it when they pull bf in. It is me being rebellious, they can scold me for all they want. There is no need to pull bf into the picture.

Mum guai lan me by saying:'FINE, then all 7days i cook. You all 7days come back and eat lor! You can anot you can anot!'

At that point of time i really feel like slapping her. And i explained that I dun like washing the dishes. You know what she says?!! She said to daddy: 'Orrhhhhh. Aiyyaa. Dun say already lahh. After all she is just saying that we r too poor to afford a maid that can do everything for her. She is unpleased with this hse lah. We too poor.' WT* WT* WT*!! wAA. That is not what i meant and she stuffed words into my mouth by assuming.

My dad lei. Guai lan also lor. Say bf's parents wont like it if i go over everynight for dinner. I dunno how true it is in fact. But at least if I am a mother, I rather my kid come back for dinner with his gf than not coming back. And from what I see, I am gladly welcomed by them.

My dad keep saying that he still want his face. Because I have been sticking so closely with bf and have been having dinner at bf place. So, if we one day happen to break off then it would reflect badly on how he educate his daughter and he will lose face.

Mum dun like us coping up in the room after dinner, kept screaming an screaming and ended up with: 'If he is capable, marry u back to his place NOW!' So everything would be supposedly resolved if I get married now?

Dad want me to be devoted to the hse. So I am suppose to be home for dinner even if they are not cooking. They rather pay extra and buy food for me. But why would I want to eat outside food when i got better choice? Stupid right?

She have been screaming and screaming untill I think neighbours can hear lor.

Everything ended with me saying :'Up to you to say.'
She: 'Up to me to say! Then you dun come back lor! Ta Ma De!'
*I close door*
*She slammed door*

This thing is just so * up. Haizz..

I guess many of your is wondering how am i dealing with my parents stuffs right now.

It is pretty alright for NOW. I guess.

Yesterday night i reached home at 10.56pm, overheard mum complaining to probably my aunty or someone elses about me. I stood at the door and eavesdrop for awhile before i went in. Went in and blew air at the back of her ears just to not make her think that i have been eaves dropping. She got a shocked though. Then i showed her a Tissot watch that bf's mummy gave me. Then went up to my dad's room and showed him the watch too. And i returned to my room.

After that mum came up with the clothes and opened my door to say..

Mum: Eh, why first time go out for the whole day with people's parents jiu buy such expensive stuffs?
Me: No lah. Not buy one. Is his mum's one, but she didnt wear. So gave it to me.
Mum: Orrhh. Then i thought u meeting jasper?
Me: Ya. Meet already ahh..
Mum: Orh.
* Walks into bro's room*

After a while, she shouted.

Mum: Jiaying. You know how to on kor kor's iPhone?
Me: huh? *Went over to try, succeed* Nehh.
Mum: Eh? Call papa come.
Me: * Walk to dad room and say 'Mummy call u'*
Mum to dad: Ehh. Neh. On already mah.
Dad to me: You know alvin's phone password?
Me: huh?Of course not. Eh. It says put another SIM card that dun have password. Your SIM card lei?
*Dad went off to take*
Dad: You try.
Me: *Try* Ehh. cannot lei. Dunno lah. Wait for him come back then ask lor.
Mummy: Aiya, dun anyhow do lah. Later he say why he go off 2 days only we spoil his iPhone.
Dad to mum: Eh, Weisze parents buy her the watch ah? So expensive.
Mum: No lah. Is his mum didnt need it so gave her.
Dad: OOrrhh. I thought so expensive. How can she anyhow accept.
Me: People parents give then dun accept very no manners lor. How can.

* All went back room to sleep*

Today morning while i am still sleeping.

Mum: Eh, I bought Ban Mian for you hor.
Me: Orrhh..

So yeah. Thats all. After that went granny hse and everything was fine until now. So is it good or bad? But of course, she started asking me to do stuffs lah. Like taking the laundry and such. I hope things stays this way, but of course i must not be nagged for returning home at 11plus lah. Aaahhhh. We shall let nature take its course. Haha.

Anyway, alot of thanks to Jasper and Brenda. =]

And of course my beloved bf! CHEE WEI SZE! I LOVE YOU! xPP

090909 is an extremely special date for bf and me! But, i should not disclose it until I'm given permission. =] I love you.

Alright. Parents and my thing is not over yet. Now...
-She does not iron my clothes
-She purposely left out my room when she have done hsework for the whole house
-She does not fill up my bottles
-She does not give me my allowance
-She doesnt even ask when i vomited

According to what she told my bro, she dun need to serve me. So yeah. We do not talk at all. Except for "Daddy, Mummy" when i reach home. They do not ask where i go, what time i am going back, nor expect me to help them do any tiny little things. Even my dad wash his dishes himself! Amazingly. Haha. And my mum dun even expect me to be back for dinner. So yeah, SCREWED. =]

And my brother is enlisting tomorrow. How fun. Leaving me to continue being ignored by my parents alone. Haha! No more middleman. ==" Damn.

Alright, thats all. Bye~

Parents are such a pain. Or maybe only mine?

Seriously feel that my parents carry too high an expectation from me.

This few days, they have been trying to get me home early. Actually, it is not this few days. Been so long. My curfew used to be 11pm. So dad starts texting me at 10.30pm to make me get home by 11pm. After that my curfew somehow shifted to 10.30pm. And he start texting me at 10.30 to tell me how many minutes late i am. Today my curfew became 10pm. He texted me at 9.59pm to tell me i am 1 mins away from 10pm and suggsted that maybe i should reach home at 9.30pm from tomorrow onwards and contimued nagging none stop using texts untill i managed to shut him up with 'have a good night and rest well.'

Mum took over at 11.30pm to rush my bf home. Called twice at 11.30pm and 11.44pm. After bf left she came into my room to give me a good scolding. =) And it ended when i completely ignored her and she slamming my door against the poor wall.

If i were to summarise what the 2 of them is trying to get across. It will be...

'We want you to be back early and spent time with the family.'

But..

So what if i come back early? As if i come back early i will be spending time with them. I will most probably be in my own room doing my own stuffs. My bro can be out for 48hrs and gets no scolding yet i get scolded when i made an effort to reach home before 11.30pm daily. Now it even got to 10pm. Even my bf's mum was surprised when i wanted to leave immediately after dinner. I have been respecting my parents by doing what i am required to do. Housework every staurday? I did. Bath when i reach home? I did. Eat at home when she cooks? I did. Wash my own bottle? I did. Wash my own bed linen? I did. Lay my own bed lined? I did! I practically did EVERYTHING myself except for washing my clothes. But i wash my own lingeries!! She only need to wash my clothes and iron them. Nothing else!

She wants me to be back early and doesnt allow my bf to stay late at my place. So she simply wanted to separate us? Comeon, who doesnt know we r inseperable? So what if we really sticks to one and other? It doesn't affect her at all wat. Seriously lor, even if i am alone from 9.30pm till i sleep. I also wouldn't make an effort to go talk to them. Whats there for me to say? I have enough bad experience for making my surroundings too clear to them and end up suffering. I dun need them to know what is happening around me. It is my stuffs, why do they even need to know?

My bro doesn't spend time with the family. So why am i expected to?? I dun understand. They are really possessive in my view. Shldn't they be happy and contented that they got each other's companion? I am happy with my bf around me rather than coping up alone in my room. Why shld i choose to talk to my parents and ruin myself when i can happily spend time with bf? Other people's parents dun expect their kids to spend time with them. Why am i expected to?

Really wish that they can understand what i am trying to say in the messages i sent my dad. If they don't then there is nth i can do. Probably after my bro enter NS, they will be even much more lonely. And hopefully slowly accept the fact that I need my own time and stop bothering me. Tssskk. Wondering if the both of them are menopausing in the same time. Zzz.

I AM GROWING UP MY DEAR PARENTS! BBbbbbbbAaaaaaa!! ZZZ. Good night~

Pissed.

Had a quarrel with mum on Friday night. Convo goes like this:

Time check: 12plus
Mum: *Watching taiwan drama on my laptop in my room* Eh. Go bath.
Me: Later lah. I also want watch.
Mum: You watch before already. Wait till finish watching 1 plus liao. Go bath now.
Me: Dun want lah. Later. I dun need wash hair. Rinse body only.
Mum: *Pause show* No. Go bath now. If not i dun watch.
Me: Ehh. Dun like that lah. Go watch go watch.
Mum: *Turn around take hanger* Wa. You want me to beat you before u wanna listen to me is it!
Me: Oi. I so old already u still wanna beat me with hanger ah?
Mum: You go bath lah! You go i dun beat you. Give you 3 second.
Me: You put back lor. Put back i go bath.
Mum: You go bath. You go bath i put back. 3!
Me: You put back.
Mum: You go bath. 2!
Me: You put back!
Mum: 1! You dun want go huh?
Me: You put back lah! You put back I immediately go!
Mum: *Hit my arm with the hanger*
Me: *Stare. Walk out. Slam room door. Slam toilet door.*
Mum: *Returned to room shortly*

Saturday. Whole day did not talk and i spent my time with bf and celebrating ping's birthday. At night, she brought back the super heavy laptop she uses at my daddy's shop to watch the taiwan drama in her room.

Sunday. Didnt talk until bf come and fetch us to granny hse. Just now, bf left and i bath @ 12am. Daddy came in and....

Dad: *Slam allowance on my table* Please lah! Can you bath earlier anot? The moment you step into the hse you will feel dirty. So you must have the habit to bath immediately! You everytime bath so late make mummy unhappy then I also unhappy. Can you bath earlier anot? You see. Everyone also bath immediately. Why must you cultivate this kind of bad habit. You so late then wash hair not good for yourself!
Me: *Trying to calm myself down* I did not need to wsh my hair.
Dad: *Silence for a second* Even if. You dun have to wash hair you also shldnt bath so late mah.
Me: The reason that SHE [mum] wants me to bath early is because of my hair. So when i dun even need to wash my hair what is the difference with me bathing early or late?!?!
Dad: Aiya. Next time bath earlier can anot? You like that make mummy and me unhappy. Know anot? Bath earlier next time okay?
Me: *Ignore*
Dad: *Walks out of my room*

WTH!! I bath late. Let mum beat. Come on. If you [someone out there] are 18 and happen to read this and ur mum still hit you with a hanger when u refuses to bath. Tag me. I wanna know you. I seriously dun think there is anyone at the age of 18 still get beaten for refusing to bath. wth wth wth. And my dad need to slam money infront of my face and start to give me a good lecture on behalf of my mum. Kao.

@#$%^&*! DAMN.

As promised. Pictures of tops dear bought for me from M]phosis. =]

There is actually zips at the shoulder. So, I can be as 'sexy' as i want. Lol!

Second top.

It's PINK! Dear complained that more than half of my closet are filled with black tops. So i am forbidden to buy black tops. =[

And dear like me to be in this kind of loose loose tops. Haha! So yeah. I am too fat for tight fits. =X

Hmmm...

Xiao Zhu. Cute hor? Haha! xP And my super sweet bf helped me to polish my nails just now!!! As if any other guys would offer to help their gf. xP

And my hubby have became the chauffeur for our class this few days. Seriously i dun mind as long as my bf is willing. Since he is the one driving. xP Sweet yeah?

Anyway, Congrats to Shawn for passing his driving on 11.08.09. Haha! His 7series rocks. But we predicted that Malcolm would fail his first attempt judging from how he drove today. xP Lucky nth happened to shawn's 7series. LOL!

Hubby is still the best. xD

Hubby driving. *Cooolll~~*
He is officially my chauffeur from 9th August 2009. xP

PS: I love you.

HUBBY PASSED HIS DRIVING TEST ON 07.08.09! xD

Congrats hubby!

On that day, his parents celebrated for him by bringing him to Seoul Garden for dinner! Haha. Wei da de mummy gave up her car and let him drive to school. While she take train to work. So poor thing.

Saturday went shopping with dear at Ion. He bought me 2 top from M]phosis! Will upload the pictures when i am free. I love them so much! Thanks hubby. *MUACKS MUACKS MUACKS!!* :p

Yesterday night dear drove me home. And realise that he got no Midnight parking coupon after he parked the car. So we drove out to Admiralty and buy it before going back for dinner. Reached home at 9pm. Ate dinner, bath and left house around 10.10pm for a ride around Woodlands!

Hubby drove me around woodland just for fun. Trying to find our way around. And we managed to not lose our way with the help of the street directory on his mum's car. Haha. It is super fun to explore. xP We made our way to CWP lah!! And of course back home. Toured around until 11plus then we reach home.

Hubby left at 12am. And came to my hse today morning at 10.30am to wake me up. Drove to school and amazingly! It is the first time we did not perspire after reaching school!!

Hubby agreed to send 3 of our friends home later. So good right! Selfless bf. Lol.

Alright. Thats all for today. Off to do serious work in school! x))

Buaii~~

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